I agree with what u were saying about them not being educated on what there response was to the visiting situation. Iam a wife and my husband commited a crime in the state of ga, my children and i support him and go see him all the time. But i look at it like this i didn't commit the crime so why should me and the kids suffer from not seeing him in a family unit situation, or me myself not bing about to have my husband close to me. Now dont get me wrong i say let him work for the visits and earn it. But ur right it would be done only if hes willing to be rehibilitated so we can still have the family unit when he comes home and even better than when he left. so iam all for it what ever it takes to not lose my family.