you could do for your daughter is keep her out of school till she's 7 or better yet homeschool her. Sounds like you are doing a great job already.
"At no point in this "study of the results" of all-day kindergarten will anyone mention the ongoing growth of social pathologies among the young -- violent crime, vandalism, unwed pregnancy, drug use, a thorough scorn for their parents' beliefs and standards, and a total absence of historical context as they're led by the nose to demand a new government "program" to solve each new manufactured "crisis."
Even though these unpleasant and very costly outcomes track perfectly with the growing amount of time kids have spent in government-run "schools" over the past 70 years, most Americans will look at you like you're nuts if you posit any causal relationship between these problems and locking up our kids in mandatory youth propaganda camps for ever more hours, days and years." VIN SUPRYNOWICZ: The social pathologies of all-day kindergarten
Gatto's talk "Nine Assumptions of Schooling -- and Twenty-one Facts the Institution Would Rather Not Discuss".........
"The social pathologies we associate with modern children are natural by-products of our modern system of schooling which produces:
" -- Children indifferent to the adult world of values and accomplishment, defying the universal human experience laid down over thousands of years that a close study of grown-ups is always the most exciting and one of the most necessary occupations of youth.
" -- Children with a poor sense of the future, of how tomorrow is linked to today. Children who live in a continuous present. Conversely, children with no sense of the past and of how the past has shaped and limited the present, shaped and limited their own choices, predetermined their values and destinies to an overwhelming degree. (Teens and twenties today?)
" -- Children who lack compassion for misfortune, who laugh at weakness, who betray their friends and families, who show contempt for people whose need for help shows too plainly. Children condemned to be alone, to age with bitterness, to die in fear.
" -- Children who can't stand intimacy or frankness. Children who masquerade behind personalities hastily fabricated from watching television and from other distorted gauges of human nature. Behind the masks lurk crippled souls. ...
" -- Dependent children who grow up to be whining, treacherous, terrified, dependent adults, passive and timid in the face of new challenges (Also known as libs/socialists/dems). And yet this crippling condition is often hidden under a patina of bravado, anger, aggressiveness."