i'm a responsible adult, with a conscience, and i firmly believe that you should spend about a thousand dollars to purchase a handgun to defend yourself.
after that, you should spend another thousand or so to attend classes to properly and safely learn to use the gun i think you should buy.
this way, you can be safe AND proficient in the care and usage of this new gun i think you should buy.
after that, i think that you should spend about ten thousand dollars to attend the bondurant school of driving, as i think that attendance at that school would be good for you, as it would help make you a safer and more proficient driver.
when you are through with that, my conscience dictates that you should go on a diet, so that you can become a healthy member of society.
then, my conscience also dictates that you should go out and spend a hundred thou or so to finish your master's degree, as you KNOW how good that would be for you.
then, i'm abliged to say, you should go to the home depot and buy about fifty gallons of pink paint, because painting your house pink would reduce stress, and we ALL know how good that is for you.
when you finish all these tasks, come back, and i'll scour my conscience to see what other things i can demand that will improve you.