

To whom it may concern;
I have great intrest in this bill because I was a foster child growing up myself. I am concerned however, that this bill may not be a high priority to the Senet. I admitt, I do not know much about what might be going on, but this bill was passed in the house almost one year ago. Why has it been Idle for so long?
HB 4118 (2009) should be passed by the senet as soon as possible. Unboubtedly, many children's lives would profet from this. The longer this bill stays idle, the more kids are going to be seperated from their families and lost in the system. Delaying this process would result in children not learning the benifits of being a part of a loving family unit. The children who don't get a chance to experience this may lose many important life skills, such as, trust of adults, stability (emotional and enviornmental), and a sense of permanency. These children often develop disorders like RAD ( reactive attatchment disorder), Depression, Anxiety Disorders, of which there are many. These all can take effect from the traumtic experience of being ripped away suddenly from all your loved ones and every thing you are familiar with, then being placed in homes with strangers, and moving around from one to another constantly having to adapt to new rules and personalities. And for children in school, keeping up with work is nearly impossible.
How do I know this happens? I know because I've experienced it, first hand, several times over. I have had serious trust issues my entire life, I have Reacive Attatchment Disorder, still being in my 20's, I have an anxiety disorder, Depression, I cannot get comfortable in a house for very long without wanting to move (as I've done this my entire life), I withdrew from adults and never trusted them until I left foster care, I always felt like a burden and completely alone, and I felt no one really cared for me and my personal well being. I determined, at the age of twelve, that the adults just wanted to control everything not ever caring how I felt about it. Therefore, I hated all adults until I became one. I made very, very bad choices growing up and I became an angry person who lashed out at everyone. I had a problem with panic attacks and suicidal thoughts. No one knew, because no one cared enough to pay close attention. Is this what we want for the children of our future?
Foster Care is needed very much for those children being abused and neglected at home, but it is so important to pass this bill so that if at all possible, the children can get placed in a safe and familiar enviornment with family other than the parents or strangers.
sincerely,
Jessica Phillips
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