

There are so many issues and emotions surrounding this subject. And so much confusion mixed with facts fiction and hype that it is hard to know when and what to say. Too many smug and self righteous attitudes combined with genuine fear loathing and anger to really reach out and touch some otherwise undisclosed truths.
This subject is not new. But the media siezes upon it whenever a ratings boost is needed or another issue needs to be clouded over.The public leaders and judicial system know that they have no effective response or any way to prevent it other than to impose truly draconian sentencing in order to show that they are at least doing something, anything about it. Even if that hasty effort clumsily destroys more lives than it claims to defend. The fact is that sexual abuse and molestation has been around since the beginning of civilisation and will be going on in some form or another till the end of it.
On every street in every neighborhood in every village town and city in America there is at least one household with a dark "Family Secret". If every single person,father,mother,brother,sister aunt,uncle,cousin,teacher, or trusted familyfriend or neighbor who has ever "done something" were to be brought in and have the "Secret" revealed and prosecuted there would be no room in the prisons for murderers, drug dealer, or terrorists!
Because there is such a desire to "keep it quiet" or "just in the family" so no one is embarrassed it causes a deep frustration that is manifested whenever there is such a disclosure of anyone caught outside the family. The suppressed rage is then unleashed in a whirlwind of anger and a blind desire for revenge and to burn the witches at the stake!!
It truly is a Scarlet Letter branded on ones forehead and for some that may be necessary. But to tar and feather with the same brush anyone who has ever had even a minor episode or made a mistake in this area is to truly throw the baby out with the bathwater. And since this message seems to be so full of cliches let me add one more that we should all be asking when it comes to pointing fingers and voicing condemnation......." WHATS IN YOUR WALLET????"""
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